Our bonding tour

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Oetie

Race Dog
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Rooihuiskraal, Centurion
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BMW R1200GS Adventure
When Riana suggested to me about three weeks ago that we should go on a bike trip to get back to basics and find sanity again, I immediately jumped to work out the route and book accommodation. This would be her first ever trip on the bike with me, something I have been dreaming of for a very long time….

We both had a very challenging year and we needed the time together without the kids to bond again and to strengthen ourselves and our relationship for the coming year.

Friends came to our assistance to look after the kids when they volunteered to stay with the kids in our house, as it would give them a change to do some work on their house.

I gave Riana the bigger pannier of the GSA for her clothing, took the smaller left pannier for myself and made place for her “lady tassie” in the top box with the rain suits and tool roll. I recently acquired a small Touratech multipurpose bag that can be strapped onto a pannier/top box or the bike self for the puncture repair kit (not knowing that it would come very handy later....), cable ties and spare gloves. On the other pannier a small bag was fastened for the odds and ends that we could not fit into the panniers and top box (in here I discovered later an extra towel and a pair of high heel sandals that was never used….) The tank bag was used for the camera, our wallets, sunglasses, cell phones, iPod and chargers.

I was initially concerned that Riana would not be able to cope with the one pannier, especially when she started to name all the clothing that she wanted to take along. I just left her with the pannier inner bag and much to my surprise ALL her clothing fitted into the bag!! Upon our return,  we took stock of what we did not use, and we both ended up with one t-shirt, one pair of socks and a clean pair of underpants. I was mightily impressed with my biker chicks’ packing skills, especially as she is an image consultant who ensures that the every item worn, fit together!!

Day 1 – 17 December

D-Day was 17 December. I initially wanted to leave at around ten, but with all the motherly responsibilities, we only managed to leave at 11. From Centurion we followed the highways around Joburg to the R59 towards Vereeniging and onto Parys where we had our first stop for the day.

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From Parys we travelled to Kroonstad via Vredefort, avoiding the highway. We enjoyed an ice cream in Kroonstad and then travelled to Bloemfontein for the night via Henneman, Virginia and Theunissen.

Day 1 and 7 were the longest days of around 490km each.

I took it very careful not to frighten Riana on the first day, and to ensure she was at ease. The Autocom system on the bike assisted a lot as we could communicate with each other.
That night we enjoyed the Christmas lights and very good company of friends at the Bloemfontein Waterfront. We can recommend the exceptional service, cold beers and quality steak at Braza!!!

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Day 2 – 18 December

Day two would take us from Bloemfontein to Cradock. My initial planning was to try and avoid the main roads. We were packed and ready to roll at around 09:00.

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We travelled to Edenburg and Trompsburg before we stopped to stretch our legs and to get something to drink.

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My initial plan was to travel from Trompsburg to Springfontein and to avoid the N1. This route turned out to be a gravel road, and as much as I wanted to take it, Riana asked me very nicely to please stay on the tar road until she was comfortable for us to travel on gravel.

Our planned route from Springfontein was to Bethulie, Venterstad, Steynsburg and Hofmeyr to Cradock. When we got to the Bethulie offramp, all the vehicles were diverted onto the road we planned to take from the N1 due to an accident on the N1 close to Colesburg. We stopped in Bethulie for lunch that consisted of cheesecake and strawberry milkshakes.

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We were both happy chappies, enjoying every second together. Even her eyes said so….

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The road from Bethulie to Venterstad took us over a very long bridge that crossed the Orange River. On the map it actually showed as crossing a part of the Gariepdam.

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Bethulie from the bridge

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The Beast and a happy couple

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We had another stop in Hofmeyr before reaching Cradock.

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We experienced Cradock as a town with warm and wonderful people. We enjoyed a romantic candle lit dinner at the Cradock Hotel – a proper cooked meal like we had years ago when we were children!!

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Do yourself a favour and have supper at the hotel in Cradock!!!!

Day 3 – 19 December

Today we would see the coast and we were both very excited. I started to pack the bike and discovered a flat rear tyre while Riana was meditating before the day starts. I could see no nails and the only visible damage was a cut in the tyre I was aware of for the last 5 000km’s. I used one CO2 bomb to inflate the tyre enough to get to a garage as there was NO air in the tyre.
Suddenly, some of the movement on the rear (started the previous day) started to make sense, and I thought it was the road that caused it…. This also meant that I travelled from around Bethulie with a deflated rear….

In Cradock we stayed at the Heritage House B&B. We had a delightful breakfast and great service from the guesthouse owners!!

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A few kilometers outside Cradock I stopped to check the tyre pressure which was fine at that stage.

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Riana came to the conclusion that she drove far enough as pillion to have enough experience to write a book “101 ways to sit on a bike”. It was evident in her moving behind me that she probably found the 50th way to sit!!!!!

When we reached Cookhouse I again stopped to check the pressure. The tyre was losing air very fast and after a careful inspection and with the assistance of water poured onto the tyre, I nailed the problem down to the cut I picked up about 5 000km’s before. It took me 3 plugs to repair the tyre and we were on our way again.

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Looking at the threat, I personally think this is not bad for the Heidenhau that did about 14 000km’s!!

When we left home, Riana said she wants to shout from the highest hill top to get rid of her frustrations, I had to give her the opportunity while checking on my tyre fixing ability.

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This also gave me time for some interesting photography.

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At last we were at the coast, two weary, but very happy individuals.

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Day 4 was spent around PE at the Boardwalk with special family and I actually forgot the camera at home when we went out….
 
Day 5 – 21 December

We were on the road again, this time back north….. Our destination for the day was Nieu-Bethesda. But no-one can travel on an empty stomach, so we first settled for breakfast on the beachfront.

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We stopped in Jansenville to get something cold to drink. It was at that stage around 36 degrees but my lovely wife still looked cool and refreshed. Go check out the mohair blanket shop and get yourself one for winter!!

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I love travelling in the Karoo! The vast open spaces and hardened landscape will make me go back again and again!!

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When we entered Graaff-Reinet the GSA showed the temperature to be 43 degrees!!! Even the wind that normally cools you down while riding was frying hot and burned us!! Riana stated that she was a hot, fried, bruised bum chick!!!

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We struggled to get fuel in Graaff-Reinet as ALL the fuel stations were out of unleaded! For the second time in 74k km’s I filled the Beast up with leaded fuel…

The turn off to Nieu-Bethesda – gravel at last!!!

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The gravel road from the N9 to Nieu-Bethesda was in a very good condition.

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Riana however just wanted to get to a cool place to relax…

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The contrasts in the Karoo always amaze me.

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The road we came from.

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At last we made it to Nieu-Bethesda and found some shade to stop in.

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Riana was exhausted and appreciated the clean and cool room and the soft bed under her numb bum at the Outsider Guesthouse.

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We took a walk through the town when it cooled off a bit.

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The guest house we stayed in. Lucky, a feathered friend joins in for supper and guards the telephone while the guests feast.

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Another oasis in the Karoo. This house is found at the entrance to Nieu-Bethesda from Graaff-Reinet.

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Day 6 – 22 December

Day 6 took us from Nieu-Bethesda back to Bloemfontein.

The day started off on a high note with a proper breakfast served.

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A last view of the town

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The gravel road back to the N9 towards Middelburg.

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When we reached the N9, I asked Riana if we can travel on gravel again and immediately got a thumbs up!!!!

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Along the road we passed a river with a very powerful name.

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Stretching our legs at Colesberg. We overnighted in this town at the “Lighthouse Guesthouse” 17 years ago on our honeymoon.

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Day 7 – 23 December

Today we were going home. It was uplifting and precious spending quality time together, but both of us missed the kids and just wanted to get home. The day, however, still held an adventure of a different sort for us. We awoke to the sound of rain and looking north, we were faced with this.

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We took on the challenge and experienced rain and very strong cross winds from Bloemfontein to Ventersburg. I decided to stay on the highway for as long as we faced rain as I was not in the mood to try and avoid potholes whilst fighting a very strong cross wind!! At times it felt as if the wind was trying its best to blow the GSA’s wheels out from underneath us!!

The weather cleared up from Ventersburg and we had a nice run home to be re-united with our kiddies.

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This was a most unforgettable and amazing seven days that we have spent together. We did a little less than 2 600 kilometers in the 6 days we were riding.

We again grew closer to each other, found answers on a lot of questions we had, and after 17 years married, are in love again!!

Riana’s words when we stopped at home were “We will do this on a yearly basis, next year we take the train to Cape Town and travel back home”.

I could not wait to get the maps together and start planning…


Riana’s comments: “I recommend a bike trip to any couple that needs time out. Our covenant relationship is the most important aspect on earth and every good purpose is birthed out of this relationship. We were truly blessed and are ready to take the world in 2010. The time with my head covered, Leon responsible and in control of our journey, having the vision clearly of our destination, was the most precious talking time with God. I realized the amazing truth of having my head covered, my husband as the visionary, my protector, the one who leads and provides. God has created man and woman………”

Thank you for reading.

Leon and Riana Fouché
 
Wow!

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May this journey be kept fresh in your minds for all of 2010!
 
Great stuff  :thumleft: :thumleft:
Excellent ride report
Well done to your wife and may we read many more ride reports of the two of you on your travels.
Thankyou for posting
 
WOW, very nice report! It leaves me with a warm feeling.

Good luck with 2010 !!
 
Good idea, the annual trip.
Sweetness and I are leaving on ours on the 7/01/10. There is nothing that recharges the batteries better than a good woman in a small tent. :pot:
Nice to see the boss come up with the idea for a trip.
Well done.
 
Thats so cool !!!!
Awesome pics.  :biggrin:
We did one night away in october. We'd love to do a few nights.
Also going to plan....biggest question is what to do with our kids. We have 3 of which 2 are teenagers. Bit daunting for grand parents.
Thanks for the inspiration. Planning in progress  :3some:
 
Leon and Riana

Thanks for taking the time to take all those lovely pics, to write the story and share your experience.
17 years - wow.... when a lot of people cannot even handle 1...  well done, your trip is inspiring and I hope to take my wife on a similar adventure in the very near future.

Thanks!  :thumleft:
 
Baie nice om te lees.

Die Karroo het maar sy mooi. . . . . .

Geniet dit.
 
Leon you exude a sense of pride throughout your RR, a pride I imagine that comes from having your wife concede to experiencing something you love to do & then aknowledging that she loves it too.

I do look forward to sharing those experiences with my life partner.

This is a RR I believe many will relate to.

Thank you both for sharing.

FREEDOM !
 
Thank you Oetie. This is somehow inspirational. Great ride, great wife, great country, great bike to do it on and a great ride report. We sometimes forget how cool it is to just swing along, doing these vast distances.
 
Baie mooi RR Oetie/Riana. Ek en my vrou was en is bevooreg om dit al dertigjaar lank al te doen. Somtyds net 1 trip vir die jaar anderkere meer afhangende van omstandighede. Ons doen die tent ding en gewoonlik hier teen die einde van die toer dan bederf ek haar met 'n lekker hotel/gastehuis. riana ja en die treintrip is 'n puik voorstel en ek stem saam met jou die helmet is 'n heerlike kuier met ons Hemelse Vader!
 
Dis die tipe trip wat enige getroude paartjie nodig het elke jaar.  :thumleft:  Dankie vir die deel van julle wonderlike bonding tour.

Cheers
 
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