In my initial contact I try not to be to flattering. Keep in mind that I have send many messages to many different people. One never know who will respond and who will simply ignore you.
Here is the first message I send her and please don't flog me for the cliche :
You wrote:
Hello Awert
Jy't 'n baie interesante profile en dit is duidelik dat jy presies weet wat jy voor soek. Ek sal baie graag meer van jou wil leer ken.
Ek hoop ek hoor gou van jou.
She responded positively but the dialogue only really started to take of when I told her I was doing a bike trip up the west coast to the Richtersveld.
This being the trip with Powerflow Justin to the "Hell Road". You can read the RR here; - https://wilddog.net.za/forum/index.php?topic=97854.0
After communicating back and forth for more than a week we were sure the feeling was mutual so far. I came up with the idea of doing a short ride into Lesotho, I suggested we meet in Clocolan which is almost exactly halfway and we could stay with family of mine.
She will have to bring her bike down on the back of her bakkie and I was simply going to ride up with my bike.
Most that know me on this forum would not even consider the silly idea of following me into Lesotho :
If you wonder why you can read this RR, - https://wilddog.net.za/forum/index.php?topic=43003.0
But fortunately common sense prevailed and I started planning a few route options based on lodged accommodation and showing her some of the more rural parts up in the mountains....but I still needed to make things adventurous enough so that I can see how she handles the stress.
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My planning started with Peka Bridge as the entry point and moving down southward to the area around Roma, Ramabanta, Semonkong and Malealea and perhaps finishing at Morija.
Most of these roads I have traveled in the past and I have a good idea of distance and condition, two things that are easily miscalculated in Lesotho.
From season to season roads can appear and disappear almost overnight and to travel 130km can easily be a full days affair....and this on the good roads.
Awert scooting along on her little TW200
So......soon it was time for us to get together for our initial meeting in Clocolan.....