tok-tokkie said:
Thanks for posting that. Nothing was said of Cherry's reaction at the time of the ghastly discovery (you would hardly have noticed) and over the next few days as the nightmare became your altered normality. And now, how is she coping with it all? A defining event in her life to see her mother like that.
Cherry was very strong, when we found Peaches lying in the veld, she had immediate concern as is normal, she helped me get Peaches back to the road where we sat her down in the shade of Pedro Camara's car, she dusted as many ants off Peaches as she could, at no stage did she panic and was a pillar of strength to me.
After Peaches was put in the car, Cherry helped me sort out the bike stuff, and once we had loaded all of Peaches' luggage onto my bike, there was no hesitation, she hopped onto my bike and off we went, making sure none of the luggage fell off.
At the Ceres hospital she was offered a ride to CT in the chopper, she accepted without hesitation, it also made it easier for me to high tail it to CT without having to worry about Cherry's wellbeing on the back of my bike.
I understand she was a bit emotional in the chopper, maybe the shock caught up with her, but when I arrived in CT she had everything under control and was emotionally stable.
Some of this very mature behaviour can be put down to the fact that she had kidney cancer when she was 6, she went through hell then during chemo and radiation, but came out of it a stronger person, she is now 12.
During the next few days in CT she was fantastic, never moaned about the circumstances, her holiday moer toe, once home she is nagging for us to go and ride, her little Honda is still one of the loves of her life. there has been no obvious trama, but we are watching her anyway.
I fetched her from school the other day on the Triumph Rocket that I had, absolutely no problem, and the envy of all the other kids. ;D